Why do men easily have a change of heart? Why are there affairs or third party incidences?
It is human nature to think the grass is always greener. It is because of this that we have new movies, new cultures, new products, new machinery, new systems… wheels roll forward. Since society is ever changing and moving forward, as a woman, how can you not be eliminated by the times, how do you keep your husband’s heart?
One: Enhance your quality, strengthen your cultural enrichment, keep up with the times.
Thereby you will also keep up with your husband or boyfriend’s pace. The family values of men in modern society have changed dramatically. A goofy, obedient girl who does not know the world will lose her grip on a strong man’s heart.
Since ancient times, you never hear of famous ladylike women who become the man’s pet. It is smart, witty women who are proficient at poetry or painting, who get the men. Many polls have found that men prefer and have a greater need for a smart, trendy, thoughtful partner. In modern society, children, cooking, and laundry are not the wife’s work. These roles have long been replaced by the nanny, kindergarten and restaurants.
Two: Full confidence.
Men like confident women. Confidence can make a mediocre face become radiant. Develop and protect your own charm. Charm is not derived from the face. The natural, the real is the most beautiful. Retardation of aging can be done.
Three: Do not lose the love of self.
This type of woman is most likely to be abandoned by men. They give the most, and will lose the most miserably. If you wholly give yourself to him as a gift, he will think that it comes too easy, and can put you aside with no pity. Many men are divorced, or have a third party relationship, even though their wives are without fault. When asked why, they answer: Maybe because I did not have to chase her!
Four: Give each other some freedom and enough space.
It is very important for both husband and wife to maintain a certain distance. If you choke a man, he will be disgusted with you. Maintain your freshness. If he is with you all day, every day, one day he will feel dull. Let him do his own thing. Evenings with you is enough.
Five: Remember that marriage is only an obligation, not a right.
Never hurt a man’s self-esteem, always give each other face! Many women treat men as their private property after marriage, always giving looks or getting angry and not speaking. Facing off in the presence of others, or public disciplining is not womanly at all. The politeness and gentleness, when you were initially in love, is gone and the true colors are exposed. Know that the man married you; he did not sell himself to you. Everyone wants face, and this is true of men in particular.